... The rules for being Human ...

When you were born, you didn't come with an owner's manual; these 
guidelines make life work better.

1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it's the 
only thing you are sure to keep for the rest of your life.

2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time informal 
school called "Life on Planet Earth". Every person or incident is the 
Universal Teacher.

3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of 
experimentation. "Failures" are as much a part of the process as "success."

4. A lesson is repeated until learned. It is presented to you in 
various forms until you learn it -- then you can go on to the next lesson.

5. If you don't learn easy lessons, they get harder. External problems 
are a precise reflection of your internal state. When you clear inner 
obstructions, your outside world changes. Pain is how the universe 
gets your attention.

6. You will know you've learned a lesson when your actions change. 
Wisdom is practice. A little of something is better than a lot of nothing.

7. "There" is no better than "here". When your "there" becomes a 
"here" you will simply obtain another "there" that again looks better 
than "here."

8. Others are only mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something 
about another unless it reflects something you love or hate in yourself.

9. Your life is up to you. Life provides the canvas; you do the 
painting. Take charge of your life -- or someone else will.

10. You always get what you want. Your subconscious rightfully 
determines what energies, experiences, and people you attract -- 
therefore, the only foolproof way to know what you want is to see what 
you have. There are no victims, only students.

11. There is no right or wrong, but there are consequences. Moralizing 
doesn't help. Judgments only hold the patterns in place. Just do your best.

12. Your answers lie inside you. Children need guidance from others; 
as we mature, we trust our hearts, where the Laws of Spirit are 
written. You know more than you have heard or read or been told. All 
you need to do is to look, listen, and trust.

13. You will forget all this.

14. You can remember any time you wish.

Take control of your mind, and you will take control of your life...

Your core belief systems are ingrained and they rule your repetitive 
self-talk that goes on non-stop (even when you are sleeping). It takes 
concerted effort to change one's subconscious self-talk. It takes a 
true examination of core beliefs to find out what limits the full 
expression of your potential to self-actuate and succeed.

"It turned out badly, just like I imagined or just like I believed it 
would, no matter how much I tried that positive thinking stuff and 
that affirmation stuff." Of course it did and there is your proof that 
it does work, if you'd only be honest with yourself.

The truth is that, no matter how much it is denied, your thoughts and 
your beliefs create your reality. Not the stuff you think about at odd 
moments, but the stuff you think in the background when you are not 
even paying attention. The stuff you think when you react. Not the 
stuff you want to believe, but the stuff that you deep-down believe 
about yourself and life...that's what produces the results.

If you do not ever do the work necessary to examine and change your 
core beliefs and subconscious self-talk, you cannot expect to change 
your reality picture - because you are imagining and expecting things 
to be the way they have always been and they are the way they have 
always been because of your core beliefs and predominant repetitive self-talk.

If you want success but don't believe you deserve it, you won't get it 
or won't keep it if, somehow, you manage to luck into it. If you 
believe that you want to go to heaven some day and also believe that 
'it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than it 
is for a rich man to get into heaven', then you'll not get rich. If 
you believe that it takes what you don't have to achieve success or 
that success is somehow tainted, you'll not achieve it.

If your subconscious is constantly telling you how unworthy you are, 
in some repetitive loop of some parental or teacher's instruction, 
you'll not be able to break free of that mental prison, until and 
unless, you make the effort to examine your core beliefs and 
subconscious programming AND then discard all the crap that does not 
serve you and replace it with stuff that does.

You will get the results you imagine and expect. What are you 
imagining? What are you expecting? Those are the questions you need to 
ask yourself.

Believe it or not...that's the way it works.

To change your reality, you must change your perceptions...

To bring something into your world, first bring it fully to life 
within yourself.

Go beyond merely thinking about what you would like to do, or be, or create.

Go ahead and experience it in detail with all that you are.

In your mind's eye, with your emotions fully engaged, surround 
yourself with the richness of whatever you envision.

Fill your awareness with the sights, the sounds, the feelings, and the 
texture of it all.

Allow yourself to experience the pure joy of the best life you can imagine.

Let that feeling penetrate to the very depth of your being.

Make it real within you, and you'll begin to make it real in the world 
around you.

Know without a doubt that it is, and it will begin to be.

Bring your vision to life on the stage of your awareness.

And the positive energy you focus upon it will surely make it real.

A Relationship With Self..Being alone

The most important relationship we have in our lives is with our 
selves. And even though we are the only ones who are present at every 
moment of our lives­from birth onward­this relationship can be the 
most difficult one to cultivate. This may be because society places 
such emphasis on the importance of being in a romantic partnership, 
even teaching us to set aside our own needs for the needs of another. 
Until we know ourselves, however, we cannot possibly choose the right 
relationship to support our mutual growth toward our highest 
potential. By allowing ourselves to be comfortable with being alone, 
we can become the people with whom we want to have a relationship.

Perhaps at no other time in history has it been possible for people to 
survive, and even thrive, while living alone. We can now support 
ourselves financially, socially, and emotionally without needing a 
spouse for survival in any of these realms. With this freedom, we can 
pursue our own interests and create fulfilling partnerships with 
friends, business partners, creative cohorts, and neighbors. Once 
we've satisfied our needs and created our support system, a mate then 
becomes someone with whom we can share the bounty of all we've created 
and the beauty we've discovered within ourselves.

As we move away from tradition and fall into more natural cycles of 
being in the world today, we may find that there are times where being 
alone nourishes us and other periods in which a partnership is best 
for our growth. We may need to learn to create spaces to be alone 
within relationships. When we can shift our expectations of our 
relationships with ourselves and others to opportunities for 
discovery, we open ourselves to forge new paths and encounter 
uncharted territory. 

Being willing to know and love ourselves, and to 
find what truly makes us feel deeply and strongly, gives us the 
advantage of being able to attract and choose the right people with 
whom to share ourselves, whether those relationships fall into 
recognizable roles or not. Choosing to enjoy being alone allows us to 
fully explore our most important relationship­the one with our true 
selves. If your mate has fear and not willing to conform, you must 
disconnect and re-enter the self. You must hope that they find the 
universe and become commited to it as you have. In other words, if you 
guys are not into the same thing. The relationship will just not work. 
The relationship with self will always. 

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Universal Laws!!!

1. The Law of Divine Oneness:
The Law of Divine Oneness helps us to understand that we live in a 
world where everything is connected to everything else. Everything we 
do, say, think and believe affects others and the universe around us.

2. The Law of Vibration:
This Universal Law states that everything in the Universe moves, 
vibrates, and travels in circular patterns. The same principles of 
vibration in the physical world apply to our thoughts, feelings, 
desires, and wills in the Etheric world. Each sound, thing, and even 
thought has its own vibrational frequency, unique unto itself.

3. The Law of Action:
The Law of Action must be applied in order for us to manifest things 
on earth. Therefore, we must engage in actions that support our 
thoughts, dreams, emotions and words.

4. The Law of Correspondence:
This Universal Law states that the principles or laws of physics that 
explain the physical world ­ energy, Light, vibration, and motion ­ 
have their corresponding principles in the etheric or universe. “As 
above, so below.”

5. The Law of Cause and Effect:
This Universal Law states that nothing happens by chance or outside 
the Universal Laws. Every action has a reaction or consequence and we 
“reap what we have sown.”

6. The Law of Compensation:
This Universal Law is the Law of Cause and Effect applied to blessings 
and abundance that are provided for us. The visible effects of our 
deeds are given to us in gifts, money, inheritances, friendships, and 

7. The Law of Attraction:
This Universal Law demonstrates how we create the things, events, and 
people that come into our lives. Our thoughts, feelings, words, and 
actions produce energies which, in turn, attract like energies. 
Negative energies attract negative energies and positive energies 
attract positive energies.

8. The Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy:
This Universal Law states that all persons have within them the power 
to change the conditions in their lives. Higher vibrations consume and 
transform lower ones; thus, each of us can change the energies in our 
lives by understanding the Universal Laws and applying the principles 
in such a way as to effect change.

9. The Law of Relativity:
This Universal Law states that each person will receive a series of 
problems (Tests of Initiation) for the purpose of strengthening the 
Light within. We must consider each of these tests to be a challenge 
and remain connected to our hearts when proceeding to solve the 
problems. This law also teaches us to compare our problems to others’ 
problems and put everything into its proper perspective. No matter how 
bad we perceive our situation to be, there is always someone who is in 
a worse position. It is all relative.

10. The Law of Polarity:
This Universal Law states that everything is on a continuum and has an 
opposite. We can suppress and transform undesirable thoughts by 
concentrating on the opposite pole. It is the law of mental vibrations.

11. The Law of Rhythm:
This Universal Law states that everything vibrates and moves to 
certain rhythms. These rhythms establish seasons, cycles, stages of 
development, and patterns. Each cycle reflects the regularity of God’s 
universe. Masters know how to rise above negative parts of a cycle by 
never getting too excited or allowing negative things to penetrate 
their consciousness.

12. The Law of Gender:
This Universal Law states that everything has its masculine (yang) and 
feminine (yin) principles, and that these are the basis for all 
creation. The spiritual Initiate must balance the masculine and 
feminine energies within herself or himself to become a Master and a 
true co-creator with God. 

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